Living up to our name

There’s a reason we call our little farm Blessed Little Thistle. Here are a few shots from around the property that prove we can live up to our name.

Luckily we can grow more than just these beautiful thorny blossoms. There were no vegetable offerings this week due to an exceptional market demand the last three weeks. But, we’ll be listing this weekend so be on the lookout for a lot of green and gold coming out of the garden.

I’ll be unloading zucchinis in unlocked cars at the Wal-Marts before you know it!

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And then there were 5….

Well, the score stands at bulldogs 1, yardbirds 0.

Ladybird has been a bit crazy since we got the chicks. She was always a bit spastic.

When she got big enough she started to fly to the top of the fence to roost. The other chickens are smart enough to NEVER do that.

She even went over the fence a couple of times, but always on the safe side. Not the side with our beloved bulldog, Daphne.

Yesterday was not that day. Yesterday Ladybird Johnson played with a bulldog and lost.

R.I.P. you crazy chicken.

 

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Mommy wars and the boob heard ’round the world

As a former business owner turned stay-at-home mom turned student of Sociology (who is [this] close to graduating, by the way) I feel like I have had several life changes that have given me diverse perspectives on the never-ending competition between moms and women in general. If you’ve seen the recent Time magazine cover of the mother breastfeeding her preschooler I am sure you have also witnessed the heated debate that has come along with it. Is it ok? What will his friends think when he’s older? Is it akin to porn? Does it reflect the true principles of attachment parenting? Does it undermine women? All of these questions fly around without considering, in my opinion, the most important questions: Did the media exploit a situation that they knew would fuel a war between women simply for publicity? Did we play right into the media’s hands? Yes. And Yes.

Come on ladies! The war has to stop. The competition is ridiculous. It really doesn’t matter which side of the attachment parenting or breastfeeding fence your on. The real issue here is that women, especially mothers, are often very polarizing in their opinions about parenting and it results in an all out war. So you didn’t breastfeed your child past six months. Does that make you the better parent than the woman who breastfed her child until the age of four? If so, who says? You? What makes any of us experts? We are all learning as we go. Some of us are parenting with a little more grace than others but we are all learning. I know a lady that has 11 children and I bet she would tell you that, even after having that many children, she is no expert. Because every child is different. And every parent is different. And some things work for some families that would never work in other families.

Yes, the cover of Time is shocking. Yes, it is very polarizing. Does it tell the whole story? Probably not. Is it a true representation of a particular sub-culture? Maybe. But probably not.

The lingering issue in my opinion is the lack of support women have for each other no matter which side you’re on. Working mothers judge stay-at-home moms. Older mothers judge younger mothers. Mothers of multiple children judge first time mothers or expectant mothers. Granola moms judge conventional moms. Moms who have it all together judge the moms who don’t. Moms who have quickly forgotten what the baby blues feels like judge the moms struggling with lingering post partum. Married moms judge single moms. We even have MTVs 16 and Pregnant so we can judge moms from the comfort of our couch.

The truth is that many of us have to make some hard decisions and battle conflicting variables when parenting our children. There isn’t always an easy answer. This article outlines the “sometimes” part of parenting. There isn’t always a clear cut choice. Sometimes there seems to be no choice at all and we are forced to do what we can with what we have. Sometimes we make bad choices.

Wouldn’t it all be a little easier if we could just get along? And support each other. Or at the very least be tolerant.

As an aspiring sociologist I look at the photo and consider how society has played a role in the creation of this cover’s controversy and what the underlying message might be. While I do not have an official breastfeeding soapbox (despite the myriad soapboxes I do have) and I can’t begin to tell you all of the principles associated with Attachment Parenting, I can tell you that a photo like this would garner much less attention in many other countries. Just take a little time to read Breastfeeding in the Land of Genghis Khan and you might find the Time cover to be mild. And, yes I realize we might think of America as a “civilized” nation that is incomparable to the developing countries where the breast is thought of as a means of feeding a child rather than a sexual thing. But how civilized are we when we compete with each other by flaunting our baby bullets and designer slings while looking down our noses at the moms who might do it differently?

While the cover is a bit shocking for me to look at initially, and while I would not have breastfed my own children for that long, it simply isn’t my place to judge the mother who chooses to do so. There is always a variable we might not know about. Those variables add up in the world of motherhood and parenting. Whether or not to go back to work, breastfeed past the “normal” age, homeschool or public school, are all things that take careful consideration on the part of the parent.

So, before we ‘gasp’ at the sight of a boob with a preschooler attached to it, perhaps we should consider that we are not that child’s parent so we do not know all of the variables and that perhaps it is the media’s ploy to get us all fired up for the sake of ratings and never to engage us in a healthy debate of the real issues at hand. You know the old saying – “Opinions are like….” well, you get the idea. Everybody has one. So, let’s try tolerance for a bit and see how that works out.

Most of us are learning as we go. In fact, everyone I know is.

What’s that thing Ellen always says at the end of her show?

“Be kind to one another”.

I think that is probably the best unsolicited advice I’ve received yet.

Let’s adapt it a bit.

“Be kind to a mother”.

“Be kind to a parent”.

We are all adapting our choices and parenting styles to fit our circumstances. And trying to live up to Time magazine’s measure of “enough” is ridiculous.

Leave the quizzes to Cosmo, Time! It’s much more exciting to discover your sex type anyway than if you are a good enough mother based on Time’s assessment.

 

 

 

 

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The flock

It’s been a while since I updated you on the chicks. The chicks are no longer chicks. They’ve feathered out and a couple are really starting to get their combs. They think Mr. Thistle is their mama, which is hilarious because it took years to convince him to let me have them in the first place. They follow him around and congregate at his feet. It’s quite funny.

They have been living happily in their coop and foraging in their run for some time now. They go to roost every night like clockwork at dusk and file out of the little coop door every morning in a single file line. They are so funny to watch. Each one has a different personality and they function like a little community.

We’re saving up for a chicken cam that we can stream live on the blog. I can’t believe I even just said that. I’ve totally lost it. But I love to watch the chickens so I thought the rest of the world might like it too.

Mr. Thistle and I still believe we have at least one rooster in the bunch but it will be a while before we know for sure. We’ve gone ahead and named them anyway despite the fact that some of the boys might actually be girls and vice versa.

Allow me to formally introduce you:

Mrs. Cluck Norris

General Tso

Ladybird Johnson

Oscar Goldman

Sebastian BockBock

Crooked Foot

Sweet little Crooked Foot is my favorite and holds a special place in my heart. We discovered a week after getting the chicks that she had a turned in foot. You can see how her back foot has toes that curl to the right in the above photo. She is perfectly healthy otherwise and gets around just fine. But it took more practice for her to learn to roost and she still falls off sometimes. She is by far the gentlest of the 6 birds.

Also, you might remember that we purchased these 6 Ancona birds because they are on the American Livestock Breeds Conservancy List under the “watch” category. That means that the breed has lost popularity and is threatened with extinction. Because our farm values biodiversity and heirloom varieties and species we jumped at the chance when our local Tractor Supply offered these birds. However, as you can tell by the photos, all of these birds do not look like Anconas. In fact, I’m starting to think that they aren’t Anconas at all. It is so hard to tell when they are fluffy little chicks. But now that they are bigger I think we ended up with a grab basket from the lovely folks at Tractor Supply who are always so knowledgeable about their poultry offerings…..SIKE!

We think Ladybird Johnson, General Tso, and Sebastian BockBock look the most like Anconas. But even so, they are still not very close to the typical look of the Ancona which is similar to a reverse Dalmatian. The typical Ancona is predominately black with white spots. And the other three are no where close to the typical markings of an Ancona. We’re thinking we might have received Ameraucanas or Araucanas. You can see how it could be confusing for the Tractor Supply.

So, looks like we have mystery birds.

But…..in a couple of weeks we’ll have 6 new chicks to add to the bunch and I should know exactly what kind they are. Unless they slip an extra bird in there, which is not unusual for smaller shipments. We’re expecting a buff orphington, a partridge cochin, a blue hamburg, a star spangled hamburg, a dominique, and a silver laced wyandotte. I can.not.wait to see the look on the miserable post office lady’s face when those chicks arrive. Surely those sweet little chirps can soften her Grinch heart. If only for a moment…..

More on her in another post.

I sat outside tonight and just watched the chickens interacting with each other. They are so soothing to watch. The one that we think is the rooster at the top of the pecking order is so fascinating. He guards those hens and is ever watchful. He keeps them in line and takes care of them. How does he know? There’s been no mama or daddy bird to show him but he does it anyway. And the way the girls get all crazy when one of them finds a bug or a worm cracks me up. They all want it. And the rooster is there to break them up. I love how crooked foot is the weakest of the birds but still so brave around me. She’s not afraid to be held and not very skittish. Then there’s ladybird, who’s not really a lady at all. She fights with all of her might to avoid being held and flies to the top of the fence (and occasionally over it). She is beautiful but she is totally crazy. She’ll probably never be much of a lap-bird. And I love how, at the same time every day, they file into their coop to go to sleep. And how they pile up on top of one another because they haven’t quite gotten the hang of roosting full time for sleep. They are so interesting. I never thought I would be so interested and fascinated by a chicken until I got them.

I also never knew how fast getting a chicken would turn me into a vegetarian but it is happening. Mr. Thistle is making the transition unexpectedly as well.

It is amazing what happens to a person when they start growing their own food. And naming that food. That food becomes a pet. Ha!

Luckily, that pet will still provide us with eggs, pest control, entertainment, and all the free manure we can handle!

This is it folks. I’m officially an urban farmer. And loving every minute of it.

 

 

 

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May 10, 2012 - 12:35 pm

nicole - So they just figured out that they needed to go back into the house at night? As silly as it sounds, that’s my last hang up on getting chicks! I don’t want to be chasing chickens around the yard at night!

May 10, 2012 - 1:08 pm

Christy - Nicole,
When they were old enough to move outside and start living in the coop we read that we were supposed to lock them up with their food and water inside for three days. At the end of three days they would know that the coop was “home” and put themselves up at night. I’m with you. It’s definitely no fun trying to herd a bunch of chickens. The only time we have to worry about it is when we need to leave before dark and be gone until after dark. They will still put themselves up but there’s no one here to shut the door so nothing eats them. We’re saving up for an automatic light sensitive chicken door that will open at dawn and close at dusk. Fancy, huh? Go ahead! Get you some chickens! They really are pretty easy.

Harvest this week

Here’s what is available at the farm beginning tomorrow 4/30/2012 or Wednesday 5/2/2012 at The Wednesday Market:

Mixed variety of radishes: $1.50 per bunch

Spring onions: $2.00 for 3 onions with green stems attached

Bright Lights swiss chard: $3 per bunch

Big Boston leaf lettuce: $3 per 10 oz bag

Tom Thumb head lettuce: $2.50 for 2 small heads

Oregano: $2 per bunch

Sage: $2 per bunch

 

Thyme: $2 per bunch

Use the contact form or Facebook to set up an appointment for direct farm purchases or simply visit The Wednesday Market to order online for pickup between 3:30 and 6:30 on Wednesday in Zebulon.

 

In other news: we have tiny little yellow squash forming already so you know what that means! Squash blossoms for sale very soon! Yum. O. Squash blossom stuffed with cream cheese are delicious.

True story.

 

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